๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ผ๐๐๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐ 99% ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ 2023.
Here are 5 steps which will help you to change your life 365 % in 2023.
The holiday season is over
Vacation, party and family time, Yehh!!! it was fun.
Now back to the life.
You introspected
Reflected
Wished everyone a great new year and prayed for you to have a great year ahead.
And in the wink of an eye, 3 days passed.
And we are on the 4th day of January.
But your 2023 will look exactly how it was in 2022 unless you make some fundamental changes.
Here are 5 steps which will help you to change your life 365 % in 2023
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1. ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ฟ๐๐โ๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐.
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The hustle culture programmed you to set goals and work hard
The bigger your goals better your possibilities of winning.
Goals are status symbols for many
If you fall into the trap and hustling hard and living an unhappy life in comparison with your achievement scale
I want to stop you for a second
Pause,
Ponder over and do a reverse approach and
Be brutally aware of what you donโt want in life
The first step of being an achiever is not setting a big goal
It's knowing what you donโt want
You donโt want many things in life
Sit with a book to write everything you donโt want in life.
Put aside everything you donโt want in life
People
Habits
Place
Situations
Drama
Anything
Be specific
Observe where it takes you
Write down
Whatever it may be
You are living an unhappy life because you have many things in your life that you donโt want
The best part is itโs really easy to identify what you donโt want in life because you know it from your experiences, not from your imagination.
You can have crystal clear clarity about what you donโt want in life because you are living the pain of it.
So find what you donโt want in life first.
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Now you know what you donโt want, Itโs easy to know what you want
I am not against setting up a big goal.
I apricate people who set one big goal and pursue it.
๐๐ซ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ฐ๐จ-๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐๐๐ก:
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What projects are you doing now?
What are you building for your future self?
Pick a piece of paper
Make a two-column
List A
Write down everything on the left side of a piece of paper.
It's ok if the list is long.
Go through the list and circle only the top 3-5 items. These should be the absolute top priorities in your life These are the items that will have the greatest impact on your trajectoryโthe compounders.
These are the items that TRULY matter.
Write these 3-5 priorities on the right side of the same piece of paper
This is your focus list.
List A is now your avoid-at-all-costs list.
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Not from Life ( people or circumstances) but from distraction
Albert Einstein was an accomplished mathematician by the time he arrived at the ETH Institute in Switzerland in 1912.
He had published many works, held professorships, and started to gain notoriety in his field.
But none of us would know anything about him if not for the 3 years from 1912-1915.
It was during this time that he formulated his theory of general relativity, which is widely considered to be the greatest scientific achievement of the 20th century.
For most of us, formulating a world-changing math theory (or the equivalent in our field) is probably a bit out of reachโbut the principle that was foundational to Einstein achieving this success is one that we can all apply to enable us to reach our potential.
I first read about the Einstein Principle in a Cal Newport NYT Bestseller DEEP WORK
The idea is simple:
"We are most productive when we focus on a very small number of projects on which we can devote a large amount of attention."
Albert Einstein devoted three years of his life to deep focus on the specific task of generalizing his theory of relativity to account for that pesky little thing called gravity.
He didn't work on ten things during this periodโhe just focused on the one thing that mattered.
The key (and the hard part) to applying this principle to our own lives is to narrow our list of projects down to those that truly matter.
We may never be able to narrow the list to one projectโbut we can all aspire to get down to ~3-5 core focus areas.
We may never formulate our own theory of general relativity, but we can all achieve our potential by internalizing the Einstein Principle.
๐๐ค๐๐ช๐จ. ๐๐ค๐๐ช๐จ. ๐๐ค๐๐ช๐จ.
๐๐ค๐๐ช๐จ. ๐๐ค๐๐ช๐จ. ๐๐ค๐๐ช๐จ
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Success looks fancy
Getting a million-dollar client
Having a brand-new SUVโ
A villa
Or
Having a million subscribers on YouTube
And those successful people will try to teach the strategies and tools and ways that they implemented and you can be just like him
You buy that simple $1k or $10 course
And alas you are at the same point where you started.
Look behind screen
All they have done is the repetition of that boring fundamentals
Dragging out of the bed every morning and
Doing that boring fundamental
You should know what are the fundamentals of your business.
Breathwork, affirmations, cold shower 5 AM Club, Meditations nothing will work if you donโt do the fundamentals.
๐๐๐ป๐ฑ๐ฎ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ฎ๐น๐ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฏ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฏ๐๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฑ๐๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐๐น๐๐
But we always need some cheap dopamine spike and we aimlessly go after the things that spike dopamine
Instead repeat the boring fundamentals, repeat, repeat, that is the only way you get the results.
Like how a sushi chef spends years and years perfecting the sushi
In Japan it's being said, it takes 3 years for a chef to make the perfect sushi rice and another eight years to make sushi
Like a tennis player strikes thousands of balls to perfect the one-angle services
Like a musician practises one note over a thousand times to perfect the cord.
Mastery is the one thing that separates you from the crowd and position higher from the surface.
Sit with a piece of paper and find out what are your fundamentals, and what brought you results.
Do it, and repeat it again and again.
5-๐๐๐ผ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ผ๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐พ๐๐๐๐ ๐พ๐๐๐๐พ๐๐.
New opportunities
New people
New problems
Though you have decided to pursue one path
You will always encounter new choices
The n donโt get distracted
๐๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ซ๐๐ง ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฅ๐ง๐๐จ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ฉ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ค๐๐๐, ๐๐จ๐ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง๐จ๐๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฉ ๐๐๐๐๐จ๐๐ค๐ฃ ๐ฌ๐ค๐ช๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐๐๐ฉ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ข๐ค๐จ๐ฉ ๐๐ฃ ๐ฉ๐๐ฃ ๐ฎ๐๐๐ง๐จ.
It will definitely make you pause and think but you will come out of the best choice and you wonโt succumb to temptation.
This is all for now.
Have a productive year ahead.
Love
Jils
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Hey I forgot to ask you one thing
Not one thing in fact two,
Have you said โI love youโ to anyone today?
If not, call the loved one and say it.
Life is short
Many couldnโt make 2022
We are blessed.
And the second thing,
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